<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360</id><updated>2009-11-08T17:13:27.781-06:00</updated><title type='text'>What Am I Doing In Mexico?</title><subtitle type='html'>Chronicle of my day to day life in Mexico</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>620</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-262215317164183590</id><published>2009-11-07T07:00:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-07T07:00:00.405-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='puppy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='exercise'/><title type='text'>Working Like a Dog</title><content type='html'>My recent lack of activity aside, Ibis and I are both very athletic and try to get some form of exercise every day, or at the very least several times a week. We enjoy a variety of sports/activities -- volleyball, tennis, rollerblading -- and actually like going to the gym on a regular basis. So it's only fitting that we'd expect the same from our dog, right?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Owen is over four months old now, so we figured there's no time like the present!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First I went over his workout regimen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3401.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3401.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then I got him started on neck and back exercises.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3395.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3395.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Next up: loosening those teeth! (He lost three more Thursday &amp; Friday)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3421.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3421.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Survey says: he likes it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3426.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3426.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sure, it only weighs a couple ounces and squeaks, but you have to start someplace.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-262215317164183590?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/262215317164183590/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=262215317164183590' title='15 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/262215317164183590'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/262215317164183590'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/11/working-like-dog.html' title='Working Like a Dog'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>15</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-1303120373811360066</id><published>2009-11-06T07:00:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-06T07:00:00.100-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Mexico'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='politics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='police'/><title type='text'>US Airman Killed in Ciudad Juarez, Mexico</title><content type='html'>I saw this headline Thursday morning and my first thought was &lt;i&gt;Good&lt;/i&gt;. Not good that anyone was killed, but if an American is going to get caught in the drug violence, better it be a member of the US armed service because it'll be harder for it to be swept under the rug.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From the &lt;a href="http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5gMi5B2USfJStXxfqgWWr2xjRYpOgD9BP80SG1"&gt;AP&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;A gang of gunmen killed an off-duty U.S. airman and five other people early Wednesday at a bar in the Mexican border city of Ciudad Juarez, authorities said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There was no immediate information on a motive for the attack that killed the U.S. airman at the Amadeus bar in Ciudad Juarez, which also left a seventh person wounded, said Arturo Sandoval, a spokesman for prosecutors in northern Chihuahua state. But the methods bore the hallmarks of attacks by drug cartels.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Staff Sgt. David Booher, assigned to the medical unit of the 49th Fighter Wing at Holloman Air Force outside Alamogordo, New Mexico, about 90 miles (145 kilometers) north of Ciudad Juarez, was among those killed in the bar, the U.S. Air Force said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Earlier this year, the 12th Air Force barred airmen from traveling in Mexico's Chihuahua state. Soldiers from Fort Bliss, just outside El Paso, Texas, across the border from Juarez, also are barred from going to Chihuahua.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm very curious to see how both the US and Mexican presidents respond to this attack. Aside from a couple articles online, it seems to be quiet. I'll be very disappointed if nothing is done, even if it was just a case of being in the wrong place at the wrong time.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-1303120373811360066?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/1303120373811360066/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=1303120373811360066' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/1303120373811360066'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/1303120373811360066'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/11/us-airman-killed-in-ciudad-juarez.html' title='US Airman Killed in Ciudad Juarez, Mexico'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-1824641709306448100</id><published>2009-11-05T07:00:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-05T07:00:00.160-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cooking'/><title type='text'>I Got the Hummus</title><content type='html'>It sometimes surprises me what foods I miss from the US. The everyday comforts from home we can get here, so it's the little things -- Triscuits, Reece's Peanut Butter Cups, dill pickles -- that I find myself longing for.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The latest: hummus.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I was in Chicago someone told me an easy recipe and the search was on for the ingredients, or substitute ingredients since some of you may recall, Mexico doesn't have lemons. (At least not where I can find them.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My ingredient list:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 cans garbanzo beans*&lt;br /&gt;5 cloves of garlic**&lt;br /&gt;1/2 cup lime juice&lt;br /&gt;1 heaping teaspoon of peanut butter***&lt;br /&gt;1/4 cup oil&lt;br /&gt;salt to taste&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* These were HARD to find. They are not in the special bean aisle (there's an entire aisle for beans) but next to the olives. Or what I call "the aisle for food only tourists eat."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;** This was too much. I'll go for 3-4 next time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*** Because we don't have tahini.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It turned out MUCH better than I expected, especially for my first attempt, and I'm excited to make it again (once we finish the garlic-fest going on in the refrigerator).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All this talk of hummus always makes me think of a famous Spanish song:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/AwXZlzCyv4g&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/AwXZlzCyv4g&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Which then makes me think of one of my favorite Marc Anthony songs, one that EVERYONE is the club always wanted to dance to (his hair is PRETTY in this):&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/2uq7no5ZJ9g&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/2uq7no5ZJ9g&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So what do you like to eat with hummus?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(Once again -- major props to anyone who can name the Friends episode that I stole the title of this post from.)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-1824641709306448100?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/1824641709306448100/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=1824641709306448100' title='23 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/1824641709306448100'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/1824641709306448100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/11/i-got-hummus.html' title='I Got the Hummus'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>23</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-8465028267515582275</id><published>2009-11-04T07:00:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-04T07:00:03.127-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='moving to Canada'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='editing'/><title type='text'>Priorities</title><content type='html'>My plans for editing alongside the NaNo participants is not going very well. I went through the entire document on Monday, but Sunday and Tuesday were both a bust (busts?). Fortunately I have good reasons for not cracking the wip yesterday.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First, I found a job site that has a TON of listings that I wasn't finding on a combination of other sites. The woman in charge of hiring at a place in Vancouver told me about it and I applied to five jobs yesterday. The most I've found in one day up until this point is two or three, so that made me very happy. Of course now I have to actually hear back from these people, but just finding jobs that interest me is a good feeling.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Second, I not only had breakfast plans with a new friend, our American neighbor is back in town and we ended up going to lunch with her. Meals in Mexico usually take a couple hours, and combined with several hours applying for jobs (plus the regular nonsense that eats up my time) I was too tired by the end of the day to edit. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A wise friend pointed out that any edits done while exhausted will most likely require even more editing, so I allowed myself the night off. I feel guilty, but the job search needs to come first.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you're a writer, how is your writing coming along? And a complete tangent -- can you believe it's been a YEAR since Obama was elected? Crazy&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-8465028267515582275?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/8465028267515582275/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=8465028267515582275' title='11 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/8465028267515582275'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/8465028267515582275'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/11/priorities.html' title='Priorities'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>11</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-1990958339039539115</id><published>2009-11-03T07:00:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-03T07:00:05.195-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='editing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='writing'/><title type='text'>Too Much of Anything...</title><content type='html'>I've officially started the second draft of After the Fall, which means that so far I've transferred my beta's comments into the "Second Draft" file and made all the easy changes. Today I'll begin the actual rewriting/editing. This may sound odd to some people, but I like to have everything prepared before I dig in -- the same way I like to have all the ingredients spread out on the counter when I'm cooking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In my first novel, The Other Side, a kind &lt;a href="http://karendionne.net/"&gt;beta reader&lt;/a&gt; pointed out (very gently) that everyone was "looking" waaaaay too often. Sure, there was an occasional glance or gaze, but the majority of their gestures focused on (*snort*) their eyes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This time around, my characters' main problem seems to be their hair. (Sorry with the puns -- I amuse easily, remember?) The stroke it, twirl it, and the most common offense, they run their fingers through it. Over and over and over. Perhaps this is because I tend to play with my hair a lot, plus one of my characters is a teenager girl and I &lt;i&gt;know&lt;/i&gt; they can't keep their hands off their tresses.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whatever the reason, I need some new gestures. I did a Find and made the comment "HAIR!" at every instance. There were a lot. I also discovered that I use the word "chair" a lot, but since they only rake their fingers through a chair once, I don't think it'll be a problem. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(I also discovered that including a space before and after the word you're searching will prevent this from happening.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm sure I've asked about gestures that you overuse, so do you have any that struck you as really funny, or completely impossible?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-1990958339039539115?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/1990958339039539115/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=1990958339039539115' title='12 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/1990958339039539115'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/1990958339039539115'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/11/too-much-of-anything.html' title='Too Much of Anything...'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>12</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-5506214358592996449</id><published>2009-11-02T07:00:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T07:02:19.204-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='internet'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><title type='text'>A Little Common Sense Please</title><content type='html'>You see a lot of chatter online about how easy the internet makes it for people to spout off without consequence, and how many people hide behind an anonymous username to bash, trash, or thrash whatever happens to piss them off that day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What bothers me are the people who seem to forget they're posting things ON THE INTERNET. This applies mostly to facebook, as people who have blogs do realize that anyone can find their posts, but I see it all over the place. People complaining about day-to-day things, like a crowded bus or slow person in line ahead of them, that make me want to smack the person upside the head and tell them to be grateful for what they have. I want to pull these people aside and tell them "you have access to public transportation, you have money to stand in line to buy something, you're healthy enough to be doing these things in the first place."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I get that a side effect of living in a first-world country is people take things for granted, but I wish these people would realize how ungrateful they appear. I have several hundred friends on facebook and the majority have a balance between positive and negative -- it's only a handful who don't seem to realize how they sound to the rest of the world. I know that with facebook only your "friends" can see what you post, but I'm guessing they present themselves in a similar manner everywhere else.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't mean for this to come off as a rant about facebook, and I'm not trying to single anyone out. My point in all this is to remind everyone that the next time a stranger upsets you -- whether they moved too slowly, reacted in a way you didn't appreciate, or committed some other &lt;i&gt;unforgivable&lt;/i&gt; social offense -- take a moment and put yourself in their shoes. Maybe the slow person has a migraine and is moving as quickly as she can, or the cranky-pants the next car over is worried about his mother in the hospital. Whatever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm guilty of this too -- I get worked up far too easily over stupid things -- but I don't turn around and blast that person all over the internet. I complain to my husband or a friend and then I MOVE ON. Yes, I occasionally post complaints, but it's usually a general thing and never hurtful. I try very hard to live my life in a way that I won't regret anything and I hopefully won't have to apologize for something I did or said. I know that's a lot to ask of people, but I'm hoping this serves as a reminder to think a moment or two before telling the internet about the latest idiot in line next to you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(As a side note, I'm not talking about people who complain that they're stuck in traffic, it's the ones who wonder "WHY DOES EVERYONE HAVE TO DRIVE HOME AT THE SAME TIME AS ME???" every day.)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-5506214358592996449?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/5506214358592996449/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=5506214358592996449' title='28 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/5506214358592996449'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/5506214358592996449'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/11/little-common-sense-please.html' title='A Little Common Sense Please'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>28</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-8481316071675643647</id><published>2009-10-31T06:58:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-31T07:17:17.628-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='puppy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='exercise'/><title type='text'>Exercising With a Puppy</title><content type='html'>I stopped going to the gym when I went home at the end of August (long story) so now all my exercise is done at home. I still do Jillian Michael's &lt;i&gt;30-Day Shred&lt;/i&gt; series, and while I often yell at her during the routine, I now have someone else to yell at too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Owen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Seems jumping around is puppy code for LET'S PLAY! LET'S PLAY! BITE ME! LET'S PLAY! It only took one well-timed jumping jack with him between my feet to stop him from getting too close during cardio, but it seems nothing will keep him away when I'm doing sit-ups.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He starts innocently enough. First he meanders over (or pounces, depending on how sleepy he is) then plops onto my belly. This is the preferred position. I can still do sit-ups with him lying on me, and he doesn't weigh much so it doesn't slow me down. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the belly sitting doesn't last long. After maybe five seconds he scoots forward until we're nose to nose and he snuffles my face. Doesn't matter which part -- whatever's closest works. I, in turn, laugh (read: giggle) which is puppy code for STRANGE NOISE! COMING FROM MAMA! LICK! BITE! SNUFFLE!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At this point I push him off me -- still trying to do my sit-ups (I'm following along with a video here) and he burrows his nose in -- you guessed it -- my armpit. Aside from the gross-factor, it also tickles, which causes more giggles and usually an unintentional elbow to his head. I push him away again and he moves around to...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*cue harps and angels singing*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;MY PONYTAIL!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Game over. Have you ever tried doing a sit-up with an animal clinging to your head? It's really not as effective as you might think. Fortunately at this point the video has moved on to the next round of cardio, at which point Owen backs off and regroups until it's time for sit-ups again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The last time I worked out I finally put him on his leash and tied him to a chair just out of reach, so instead of him attacking me, he talked to me the entire time. At least he was encouraging during the sit-ups.  :P&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Who me? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/100_2996.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/100_2996.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here he is acting all innocent while visiting friends earlier this week.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-8481316071675643647?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/8481316071675643647/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=8481316071675643647' title='11 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/8481316071675643647'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/8481316071675643647'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/exercising-with-puppy.html' title='Exercising With a Puppy'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>11</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-3045613919278743884</id><published>2009-10-30T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-30T06:00:01.352-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><title type='text'>*sigh*</title><content type='html'>I tried to write a post for today, I really did, but I have too many other things on my mind. Instead, can I just ask that you'll please think positive thoughts for one of my family members? It's been a stressful week for several of them (including three separate car accidents), but one in particular has me worried.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-3045613919278743884?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/3045613919278743884/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=3045613919278743884' title='17 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/3045613919278743884'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/3045613919278743884'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/sigh.html' title='*sigh*'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>17</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-649052640094474318</id><published>2009-10-29T06:00:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-29T06:42:59.172-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='NaNoWriMo'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='editing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='writing'/><title type='text'>That Writing Thing</title><content type='html'>I know I haven't talked about writing much here in the past week or so, and that's because I'm giving myself a little distance from my wip, After the Fall, until I finish a tutorial for Flash. I have two chapters left in that book, so I plan to start the second draft this weekend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ironic that it coincides with &lt;a href="http://nanowrimo.org/"&gt;NaNo&lt;/a&gt;, no? A lot of my friends are doing NaNo this year and of course a teeny part of me wishes I were too. Just a teeny part though. Instead, I've decided to try to get through the second draft in one month. There are roughly 30 chapters so it should break down okay (aside from the fact that in addition to working by chapters, I also do several passes for particular problems) and I'd love to have a shiny new draft come December 1st.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Giving me a nice kick in the pants, as usual, Erica Orloff's blog post yesterday talked about &lt;a href="http://ericaorloff.blogspot.com/2009/10/world-series-time-your-pitch.html"&gt;perfecting your pitch&lt;/a&gt; and she critiqued our 45-word pitches in the comments. Even if you aren't at that point yet, it's helpful to see what works and what doesn't, and at 45 words each (or less), it's not too cumbersome.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After the Fall has three point-of-views, and I can't decide which I prefer:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;When Greg Vandenberg kills a masked intruder who's attacking his daughter, the community calls him a hero. But the intruder is revealed as his best friend and neighbor and the two families find themselves on opposite sides of the tragedy, both struggling to understand what drove the man to attack.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*****&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Becca Vandenberg wakes up to find a masked man trying to rape her, and is saved when her father kills the man. But the intruder is revealed as her neighbor and father of the boy no one knows she's dating, and she fears their secret may have driven the man to attack.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*****&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When Carol Stevens hears that her husband had "an accident" at the neighbor's house, she assumes he died of natural causes. But he was killed while trying to rape their friend's daughter, and now she's the only one left to protect her children from a community hellbent on crucifying their father's memory.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What do you think?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-649052640094474318?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/649052640094474318/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=649052640094474318' title='16 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/649052640094474318'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/649052640094474318'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/that-writing-thing.html' title='That Writing Thing'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>16</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-7605081471671190868</id><published>2009-10-28T06:00:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-28T06:00:05.004-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><title type='text'>Overload</title><content type='html'>It's been a busy couple days -- for me anyway -- and you'd think I'd have plenty to talk about, but I'm drawing a complete blank. I've played even more games, Owen's lost more teeth, we've had a couple crazy thunderstorms, and my computer almost died, yet nothing is inspiring me for a post.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Seems to be contagious among my blogging friends.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Maybe it's because we had daylight savings on Sunday while the US doesn't switch until this coming weekend. It's been dark when I get up and perhaps that's screwed up my head. Who knows...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, do you have plans for Halloween?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-7605081471671190868?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/7605081471671190868/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=7605081471671190868' title='20 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/7605081471671190868'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/7605081471671190868'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/overload.html' title='Overload'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>20</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-8337184735569610010</id><published>2009-10-27T06:00:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-27T06:00:04.863-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><title type='text'>Cribbage</title><content type='html'>Have you ever played &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cribbage"&gt;cribbage&lt;/a&gt;? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My sister taught me while I was visiting over Labor Day weekend, and to say we played non-stop would be a bit of an understatement. We get a tad obsessive about our games -- years ago it was gin rummy, and for the past several years it's been Scrabble. But now... ahh, cribbage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I bought a version to bring back with me and forced Ibis to play, but we never made it past that first attempt. I was sure he'd like it because you use cards &lt;i&gt;and&lt;/i&gt; a board (you don't get bored with one or the other) and it's all strategy, which he loves, but he couldn't get into it. A lot of it was my fault because I was still learning and it's tough to play when neither of you are very comfortable with the rules, but either way, we haven't played since.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yesterday we hung out with our friends at their hotel (on the HUGE patio) and it wasn't long before someone busted out the cribbage board. Be still my beating heart. We played until it was too dark to see and dinner was ready, and I'm proud to say I held my own with guys who have been playing for years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today I'm bringing my new board for a rematch. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you have any games you're addicted to, or that you always play when you get together with friends and family?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-8337184735569610010?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/8337184735569610010/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=8337184735569610010' title='19 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/8337184735569610010'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/8337184735569610010'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/cribbage.html' title='Cribbage'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>19</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-1454139941132766094</id><published>2009-10-26T06:15:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-26T07:09:07.783-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='NaNoWriMo'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='editing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='writing'/><title type='text'>NoNoNoNo</title><content type='html'>As my writing friends are aware, November is &lt;a href="http://www.nanowrimo.org/"&gt;National Novel Writing Month&lt;/a&gt;, more commonly known as NaNoWriMo, or NaNo, and it's an annual challenge to write a 50,000 word novel in one month. The biggest complaint I've heard (from publishing industry people) is that far too many of those writers then begin querying their novels on December 1st.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Those who know better (ahem *straightens lapels*) write another 20,000 words, minimum, then write several more drafts before declaring the novel complete. I participated for the first time last year and by November 30th I had 63,000 words. I didn't pick it back up until mid-summer, and I finished the &lt;i&gt;first&lt;/i&gt; draft last month. Yes, I'm talking about After the Fall.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've heard a lot of complaints about NaNo -- aside from the querying gripe -- and the most common is that "forcing yourself to write that many words daily" is just teaching bad habits. NaNo's manta is to let yourself write crap (or at least that's how I remember it) and these naysayers seem to think that no one is capable out a high daily output that's &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; crap. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well I think &lt;i&gt;that's&lt;/i&gt; crap.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Buzz on the street (ie the internet) is that professional writers, those who have a new book or two published every year, regularly write that much per day. 2000 words is roughly 6 pages, and if you're writing a 300-page book (*busts out calculator*) it would take 50 days to write 100,000 words. Now obviously most people won't keep up that pace, but even if you add a month or two extra, the quantity doesn't seem that far-fetched.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What I took away from NaNo is the knowledge that I can write 2000 words per day. Sure, I need to break my writing sessions into two or three sittings, and actually getting up from my desk is important, but I can do it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That said, this year... I'm &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; doing it. I'm looking forward to the edits on "nanonovel08", as I lovingly called it while writing last November, and I'm not ready to start a new idea. To all of you who are -- GOOD LUCK!!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-1454139941132766094?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/1454139941132766094/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=1454139941132766094' title='26 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/1454139941132766094'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/1454139941132766094'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/nononono.html' title='NoNoNoNo'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>26</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-6742146748490409451</id><published>2009-10-24T07:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-24T07:00:01.337-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='puppy'/><title type='text'>Already?</title><content type='html'>Friday morning I woke up and discovered Owen is missing THREE teeth. Three! I knew they start losing them around four months, and as he turned four months on Thursday that makes sense, but I didn't expect him to be so prompt.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3321.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3321.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He was half asleep here and didn't want me to open his mouth, but there's a red spot where his top tooth fell out (to the left of the tooth you CAN see). The two bottom front ones are also gone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last night our friend Mary, her husband, and another couple came over for dinner and after a couple hours of running from person to person to person, then Oh! back to another person, Owen crashed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3332.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3332.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-6742146748490409451?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/6742146748490409451/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=6742146748490409451' title='13 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/6742146748490409451'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/6742146748490409451'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/already.html' title='Already?'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>13</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-8657009152124366375</id><published>2009-10-23T07:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-23T07:00:03.140-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='writing'/><title type='text'>Ponderings</title><content type='html'>I thought I'd give you an update on my second novel, After the Fall. I finished the first draft several weeks ago, then sent it to my beta reader, who sent back some &lt;i&gt;wonderful&lt;/i&gt; advice. She'd also read The Other Side so I felt comfortable sending a relatively unpolished early draft, along with several questions about voice, plot, etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then I decided to put it away for a couple more weeks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm currently working through Peachpit Press's &lt;i&gt;Hands-On-Training: Flash CS3 Professional&lt;/i&gt; and I've decided that my writing energy (or really, my creative energy) will go to that. Once I've finished the tutorial, I'll start the second draft of After the Fall.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That decision is working well for me, as I'm two-thirds of the way through it, but I've noticed something interesting: my characters are talking to me again. Or if not talking (since as I told Jenna, they don't really do that) but they're living their lives and rearranging scenes that need reworking. It's very considerate of them. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'd gotten into the habit of thinking about the upcoming scene before getting out of bed, that way as soon as I sat down I could write without getting stuck, and apparently it's the habit that's stuck. This morning I kept replaying the final scene -- one that needs tweaking and I know exactly how, but I haven't touched the file -- and at this point it's so locked in my head I don't even need to take notes. Some of the bigger issues, like making the male POV sound more fatherly, still need more thought, and I'm hoping I can focus these morning ponderings on his perspective.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's nice actually looking forward to edits, and it's giving me extra motivation to finish the Flash book.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-8657009152124366375?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/8657009152124366375/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=8657009152124366375' title='11 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/8657009152124366375'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/8657009152124366375'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/ponderings.html' title='Ponderings'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>11</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-4023398752019743650</id><published>2009-10-22T07:00:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-22T07:00:01.901-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='reading'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='writing'/><title type='text'>The War of Art Giveaway</title><content type='html'>My cousin &lt;a href="http://jennakrumlauf.blogspot.com/"&gt;Jenna&lt;/a&gt; is giving away copies of Steven Pressfield's &lt;i&gt;The War of Art&lt;/i&gt; TODAY!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5PLck6mN0LI/StyBwX7RtiI/AAAAAAAAAb8/kLSEiylMDpI/s320/cover_war_art.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 185px; height: 278px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5PLck6mN0LI/StyBwX7RtiI/AAAAAAAAAb8/kLSEiylMDpI/s320/cover_war_art.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Pressfield's weekly writing post, &lt;a href="http://blog.stevenpressfield.com/category/writing-wednesdays/"&gt;Writing Wednesdays&lt;/a&gt;, discusses how writers can, among other things, get over resistance -- the thing that keeps us from living the life we want to live (or something along those lines). &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jenna interviewed him and asked him about "mastering fear, getting past those "draw novels", and themes." Run on over and check it out, then leave a comment to be entered in the drawing for a free copy of &lt;i&gt;The War of Art&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-4023398752019743650?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/4023398752019743650/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=4023398752019743650' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/4023398752019743650'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/4023398752019743650'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/war-of-art-giveaway.html' title='&lt;i&gt;The War of Art&lt;/i&gt; Giveaway'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5PLck6mN0LI/StyBwX7RtiI/AAAAAAAAAb8/kLSEiylMDpI/s72-c/cover_war_art.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-8193561172694930609</id><published>2009-10-21T07:00:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T07:00:07.714-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ailments'/><title type='text'>I'm Healed!</title><content type='html'>Well, sort of. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I saw the doctor Tuesday evening and after a couple minutes of poking, he declared me fine. I have to keep putting ointment on it for another three weeks, which means STILL no swimming or beachy things, and I still have to wear a band-aid, but I don't have to go back to his office.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yay!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We didn't discuss why he wasn't there on Friday, and frankly, I didn't have the energy to ask. I'm just glad this is almost over.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-8193561172694930609?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/8193561172694930609/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=8193561172694930609' title='20 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/8193561172694930609'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/8193561172694930609'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/im-healed.html' title='I&apos;m Healed!'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>20</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-6449629338313822560</id><published>2009-10-20T07:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-20T07:00:02.260-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ailments'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Mexico'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='animals'/><title type='text'>Tuesday Stuff and Things</title><content type='html'>I haven't done one of these in awhile, and since I'm having trouble forming a thought long enough to make up an entire blog post, you get odds and ends.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*****&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As of Saturday, we finally have a wash basin/tub that's large enough to hold water AND ME! We bought it so we have something large enough to hold Owen (we've been washing him in a bucket up until now) but if I sit with my legs crossed I can finally cool off in a "pool." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Only problem -- we haven't figured out an effective way to empty it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*****&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was supposed to go to the doctor last Friday to get a check-up on my toe, but when I arrived I was told he'd already left for the day. They didn't call because "they don't have my number," which isn't true, and told me to come back on Monday.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We called several times on Monday to confirm, but no one answered and so I didn't go. We plan to try again today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems to be healing nicely and I've made the executive decision to switch from the large bandage that requires lots of tape to a regular old band-aid. Now I can shower multiple times a day. Or go in a "pool".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*****&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We have friends in town! Regular reader and commenter Mary is here with her husband and we've already gotten together twice. We met them during their stay last year (they stayed where Ibis was working) and now they're back! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mary is the first blog reader to have the honor of meeting Owen, and so far everyone seemed to like each other. :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*****&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My grandmother is recovering well from spinal surgery and last week moved from the hospital to an assisted living/rehab place where she will have physical therapy, etc. We're all very relieved that things seem to be going so well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*****&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally, we still have bugs, although not as bad, and I'm itchy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*****&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What's new with you?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-6449629338313822560?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/6449629338313822560/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=6449629338313822560' title='14 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/6449629338313822560'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/6449629338313822560'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/tuesday-stuff-and-things.html' title='Tuesday Stuff and Things'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>14</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-5783962670362847619</id><published>2009-10-19T07:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-19T07:00:10.881-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Zihuatanejo'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Mexico'/><title type='text'>Hurricane Rick?</title><content type='html'>Saturday afternoon I was minding my own business, playing my 114th game of Bejeweled, when a dark cloud swallowed the sky, the wind blew away every piece of paper on my desk, and it started raining inside. Or something to that effect. I closed the doors and windows, turned on the lights, and continued with my game.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;About an hour later Ibis returned from the beach, much drier than I'd expected. He and his friends had taken cover beneath a palapa -- well actually, he put his things beneath a palapa while HE swam in the NINE-FOOT WAVES. We both agreed there must have been quite a storm over the ocean. For fun, I checked out weather.com and look what I found:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/Picture2.png"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 319px; height: 237px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/Picture2.png" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well look at that. It's a CATEGORY 5 HURRICANE and we knew nothing about it. But Rick? Really? As I read the reports a comment from He-Robin from Saturday suddenly made sense. I thought he mistook my dog's name for Rick and couldn't understand why he thought our puppy looked mean, when actually he was warning me of impending doom. Ohhhhh. Gotcha.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then my sister-in-law-in-law (if that makes sense) pointed me to a cool website called &lt;a href="http://www.stormpulse.com/"&gt;stormpulse&lt;/a&gt; that tracks storms over the different oceans. That site showed me this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/Picture1-1.png"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 319px; height: 215px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/Picture1-1.png" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I screen-captured these on Sunday afternoon, a full day after Rick passed by, but trust me when I say I couldn't have been more surprised to see the EYE OF THE STORM directly off the coast of Zihuatanejo. Yikes!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By Sunday the sky was once again clear, most of the rain had evaporated, and it was business as usual.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-5783962670362847619?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/5783962670362847619/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=5783962670362847619' title='20 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/5783962670362847619'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/5783962670362847619'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/hurricane-rick.html' title='Hurricane &lt;i&gt;Rick&lt;/i&gt;?'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>20</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-874926031653990858</id><published>2009-10-17T07:00:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-17T07:00:01.393-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='puppy'/><title type='text'>Leaps &amp; Bounds</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/OwenLooking.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/OwenLooking.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So much love. I just can't get over it. :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We had a big milestone this week -- Owen learned how to jump onto the couch! He's been pulling himself up for quite awhile, much like a toddler, and a couple nights ago launched himself and &lt;i&gt;almost&lt;/i&gt; made it on top. He just couldn't figure out how to pull himself up. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Later that day we got him all riled up where he runs in circles around the condo, hurdling chairs and diving under the coffee table, and he LEAPED into Ibis's lap. On the couch. I think Owen was more surprised than we were! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He can't do it every time but I'm sure in another week he won't think twice about it. Other big things: he can stay, he wakes us up to go outside, and he's figured out that there's no sense following me into the kitchen because he gets NOTHING. Ibis on the other hand...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-874926031653990858?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/874926031653990858/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=874926031653990858' title='11 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/874926031653990858'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/874926031653990858'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/leaps-bounds.html' title='Leaps &amp; Bounds'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>11</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-4250770841862013016</id><published>2009-10-16T07:00:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-16T07:34:47.602-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='puppy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='animals'/><title type='text'>This is Really Starting to Tick Me Off</title><content type='html'>Can you guess what these are?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3307.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3307.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you've been following along on Twitter or are my friend on Facebook then you might guess that these are ticks. I pulled these off Owen in the space of about half an hour, and removed the same amount the day before (then again later after this picture was taken). I put water in the bowl because it's easier to drop them in there, and this way I don't have to squish them and they can't run away. I just have to keep Owen from drinking the water.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He's had bugs since we first got him, so we check him daily for little critters. (He's surprisingly well-behaved while we do it, too. Yesterday he even fell asleep while I was attacking his face.) After one particularly disgusting excavation about a month ago, we thought we had them all and didn't see any for several weeks. Well, it looks like the new litter is here. And now they're attacking us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We've tried everything short of bug bombing the house, and that's only because I haven't figured out if they actually sell bug bombs here. We've bleached the floor countless times, torn apart the bedroom, washed the curtains... you get the idea. And they still keep coming back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since I'm picking them off him with my fingernails -- don't worry, they're just on the surface of his skin -- inevitably one or two ends up crawling on me, and now I have the constant sensation that creepy crawlies are on me. It doesn't help that I have lots of moles and freckles.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Right arm: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3308.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3308.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Left arm:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3309.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3309.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you have any suggestions for non-toxic remedies, both for Owen and the house? So far people have suggested feeding him garlic, washing him in dish soap and/or flea &amp; tick shampoo (which we do have), and giving him an oral pill (which we're looking into). My preferred option is MOVING, but we need something a little more short-term.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ETA: LurkerMonkey just informed me that &lt;a href="http://1-millionmonkeys.blogspot.com/2009/10/hike-by-melanie-avila.html"&gt;my short story&lt;/a&gt; is up at his blog today.)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-4250770841862013016?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/4250770841862013016/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=4250770841862013016' title='24 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/4250770841862013016'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/4250770841862013016'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/this-is-really-starting-to-tick-me-off.html' title='This is Really Starting to Tick Me Off'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>24</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-7518969038920194944</id><published>2009-10-15T07:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-15T07:00:00.187-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Mexico'/><title type='text'>Room Temperature</title><content type='html'>I try to keep a balance of writing posts and Mexico posts, and I feel like lately I've been a bit heavy on the writing side. While wracking my brain for a Mexico topic -- considering I only leave the house once or twice a week -- my gaze fell upon a tray of eggs sitting on the dining table. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You see, they'd been there since the day before, and it didn't bother me that they weren't in the fridge. Sure, it crossed my mind a hundred different times that I should put them away, but that was more out of a need to be organized than wanting the eggs to be cold. We buy them at both the market and the grocery story and neither place refrigerates them, and since we haven't gotten sick yet, I don't worry about it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Next up is milk. I think I've mentioned here before that the majority of the milk sold in Mexico is sold at room temperature, and if you've ever traveled to Mexico you've probably seen this for yourself. When we first moved here we bought the refrigerated milk that comes in plastic containers like in the US, but quickly discovered it went bad within a day or two. I forget how we switched, but now we buy the one liter cartons and generally have two or three in the fridge at one time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Despite the fact that it's stored on a shelf, it doesn't taste any different. In fact, I think it lasts longer than "regular" milk back home. Perhaps the smaller size means you finish it faster &amp; it doesn't have a chance to spoil. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The strangest experience I've had here is still my first week in Mexico, before I'd actually moved here. We were staying with Ibis' aunt in Morelia and even though she had a refrigerator, she stored all her leftovers on the dining room table, still in their pans. If you wanted to eat something, you just set it on the stove, warmed it up, then returned it to the table. I was a little concerned about getting sick, but again, I was fine, so maybe they're on to something here.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I will say I had a hard time drinking her milk. She kept it in a tall metal container ON THE TABLE and when you wanted some, say for cereal or coffee, you poured it through a strainer TO CATCH THE CHUNKY FILM that solidified over the top since the last person set it there. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I do draw the line there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you have any strange refrigeration stories you'd like to share?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;(fyi -- The power came back at 6pm Wednesday night, nearly TWO DAYS after it went out.)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-7518969038920194944?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/7518969038920194944/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=7518969038920194944' title='21 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/7518969038920194944'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/7518969038920194944'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/room-temperature.html' title='Room Temperature'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>21</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-4480791250030881438</id><published>2009-10-14T07:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-14T07:00:02.176-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Mexico'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='condo'/><title type='text'>A Minor Rant</title><content type='html'>I planned to write today's post about the curiosities of Mexican refrigeration compared to US standards -- what things go in the fridge, which do not -- but then we lost power. Monday afternoon I had just finished doing whatever it was I was doing and got up to make lunch when that dreadful pinging sound came from the fuse box. Kind of like a shock from static electricity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes, the power was out. Again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We waited the ten minutes it normally takes to come back, and when we heard music coming from our neighbor's house I asked Ibis if we'd paid the bill. Now, some of you have heard me complain about this before and are probably wondering why we never pay our electric bill on time. Thing is, they used to put the bills on the meter, then they started putting them on our &lt;a href="http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/08/around-condo.html"&gt;door/mailbox&lt;/a&gt;, and apparently now they're back on the meters. The meters are around the side of the building and half-covered with plants, so they aren't very easy to see, plus the billing cycle is every two months, so it's easy to lose track.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The last time this happened was right when I got back from my trip home, which was roughly a month ago, which also means something is off. We shouldn't have gotten disconnected until NEXT month.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, Ibis went down to the electric company and paid the bill, but instead of it coming back on within half an hour, we STILL don't have power over 24 hours later. Around 6pm Monday evening he ran an extension cord rigged from our downstairs neighbor's house that runs through our window and keeps the fridge running. And a fan, a light, and as of Tuesday, our computers. I'm writing this on Tuesday evening, and the latest from the electric company is we'll get it back Wednesday. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since we have the extension cord we're really not THAT inconvenienced, but it would be nice to be able to turn on a light and do laundry. Or use the blender or coffee pot. Or watch TV.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*sigh*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes, I've made a note when to pay the bill next, and we'll start checking for the bills in a couple weeks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;/rant&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-4480791250030881438?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/4480791250030881438/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=4480791250030881438' title='12 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/4480791250030881438'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/4480791250030881438'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/minor-rant.html' title='A Minor Rant'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>12</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-7749975793781617066</id><published>2009-10-13T07:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-13T07:00:05.322-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='condo'/><title type='text'>My Workspace</title><content type='html'>Adam at &lt;a href="http://editinghat.blogspot.com/2009/10/my-workspace-wiv-pickshures.html"&gt;Editing Hat&lt;/a&gt; and Stacey at &lt;a href="http://flibbitygibbet.blogspot.com/2009/10/writers-work-space-getting-your-geek-on.html"&gt;Flibbity Gibbit&lt;/a&gt; have both posted pictures of their workspace and inspired me to do the same.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3299.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj131/melaniehoo/IMG_3299.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First of all, this is pretty much what it always looks like, give or take a plate or book. Now for some explanation:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&gt; The white books on the left are my web design tutorials. I'm studying Flash now and I'm using the Dreamweaver book to prop it up while I read.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&gt; The two plastic bottles are filled with sand and serve as hand weights. I sometimes lift them while reading stuff online. The wristbands are because I have weak wrists &amp; they sometimes hurt if I've been mousing a lot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&gt; The speakers are so I can hear the Bejeweled guy say "Excellent!" really, really loudly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&gt; Notepads, pen, and highlighter are all self-explanatory.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&gt; The purple cup is ALWAYS full of water. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&gt; And finally, Owen. He's normally on the floor directly beneath my chair, but I put him there so I could get a closer shot of the desk.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Care to play along? If you post a picture, leave a comment so I know to check it out!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-7749975793781617066?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/7749975793781617066/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=7749975793781617066' title='20 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/7749975793781617066'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/7749975793781617066'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/my-workspace.html' title='My Workspace'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>20</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-5536104769587827708</id><published>2009-10-12T07:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-12T07:00:02.549-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='writing'/><title type='text'>The End: Part Three</title><content type='html'>Last Thursday I typed The End at the end of my first draft of After the Fall, then Friday I added a scene that helped wrap up the climax -- totaling another 1300 words -- then I spent all day Saturday doing a "quick" read-through so it would be coherent for my beta reader. Thirteen hours and another 800 words later, I sent it off. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At 88,500 words, this time I really mean The End.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;During my marathon reading/editing session I kept having that strange sensation that while I knew I wrote what I was reading, it didn't feel like I wrote it. But in a good way. There were a few loose ends I needed to fix (hence the additional 800 words) but for the most part everything seemed to mesh. And I didn't even hate the final page. (I usually hate my endings.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My plan is to give myself a break from After the Fall and concentrate on getting better with a couple web design programs and continuing my job search. And doing another round of edits in The Other Side. Have I mentioned that? A trusted friend and published author suggested that the voice wasn't quite there, that it sounded a little too much like me and not enough like a nineteen-year old Mexican man, so I'm going to go through it one more time. Then go back to querying.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So how was your weekend?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1124066428536267360-5536104769587827708?l=melanieavila.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/feeds/5536104769587827708/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1124066428536267360&amp;postID=5536104769587827708' title='23 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/5536104769587827708'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1124066428536267360/posts/default/5536104769587827708'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://melanieavila.blogspot.com/2009/10/end-part-three.html' title='The End: Part Three'/><author><name>Melanie Avila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08781235493983907234</uri><email>melaniehoo@hotmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16430350996873875391'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>23</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124066428536267360.post-4031480185543920621</id><published>2009-10-10T07:00:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-10T07:00:00.702-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='puppy'/><title type='text'>What a Crybaby, Part 2</title><content type='html'>Our first video of Owen! 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